For many married couples, an active sex life is an integral factor in keeping the relationship strong. In fact, sexual compatibility is what may have drawn couples together to with. Unfortunately, not all couples enjoy regular sex, especially with the passing of time. It can be very frustrating, for example, for wives who have husbands that have lost interest in sex. While the problem can be relatively complex, wives can take definite steps to increase their husband's sex dive.
Make changes in physical appearance. The changes could include losing weight, or changing hair color and style. These changes could cause a husband to pay more attention to his wife's physical qualities, which could stimulate his sexual desires.
Wear more revealing clothing. This is especially important before going to bed. Visual stimulation is an important key in sexual arousal. Also, looking as attractive as possible at all times can attract positive attention.
a relaxing environment. A relaxing massage, for example, can help eliminate the symptoms of stress. Stress can be a contributing factor to a reduced interest in sex. Playing soothing music during the massage can be helpful in reducing stress as well.
Set up a time to discuss mutual feelings. This is especially important if the first three steps are unsuccessful. The meeting should be in a quiet place with limited distractions. An attempt should be made to allow both partners to speak freely.
Set a date to go away for a week together. a location where activities can be enjoyed together. Make an effort to look as good as possible, and have a romantic dinner together. Initiate as much physical contact as possible by holding hands and embracing.
Make an appointment, as a couple, to speak with a counselor. This is essential if the first five steps fail to bring satisfactory results. It is important to a counselor with extensive experience handling couples with intimacy problems...,
07-மே-2013 18:11:36 IST
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இரவு பகல் பாராமல் தொழில்புரிபவர்கள் இவ்வாறான மன அழுத்தங்களுக்கு அதிகமாக உள்ளாகுவதாகவும் இதனால் குடும்பத்தினரின் முரண்பாடுகளையும் இத்தகையானோர் எதிர்கொள்கின்றனர். இந்தியாவின் வெள்ளைச் சட்டை உழைப்பாளிகளில் 66 சதவீதம் பேர் தனிமையை உணர்கின்றனர். 77 சதவீதம் பேர் தமது மகிழ்ச்சியையும் வருத்தங்களை யாருடனாவது பகிர்ந்து கொள்ள விரும்புகின்றனர்.
25-மார்-2013 11:25:45 IST
She suffers from depression...her husband can do a great help...Convince her to get treatment or she can visit therapist personally. It isn’t always easy to help the depressed person get treatment, but it can be done, and helping can make you both feel better.
25-மார்-2013 11:21:01 IST