Sexuality necessarily takes on a broader definition as we age. Try to up to the idea that sex can mean many things, and that closeness with a partner can be expressed in many ways. It’s not just about intercourse. Sex can also be about emotional pleasure, sensory pleasure, and relationship pleasure. Intercourse is only one way to have fulfilling sex. Touching, kissing, and other intimate sexual contact can be just as rewarding for both you and your partner. Natural changes. As you age, it's normal for you and your partner to have different sexual abilities and needs. Find new ways to enjoy sexual contact and intimacy. You may have intercourse less often than you used to, but the closeness and love you feel will remain.
04-பிப்-2014 15:57:57 IST
The mental part of abuse is insidious. If your husband is abusive, you don't have to have his permission to get divorced. What you have to do is learn to separate his put-downs and control from reality, be very careful of your own physical and mental safety, and be prepared to give up some security. OR Keeping a marriage fresh and exciting can be challenging amidst the stress of daily life. Thankfully, there are small deeds that you can perform to keep your husband happy and let him know that you love him more and more each day. Share in the responsibilities of marriage and try different approaches to leading a happy, spontaneous life that gratifies you and your spouse both emotionally and sexually. Try some of the ideas below to tug on your husband's heart strings and make your marriage thrive…Spice up your sex life. One of the main aspects of marriage where the excitement can quickly fade is the sexual aspect. You'll both have to work hard to keep your sex life interesting, but thankfully there are several things that you can do….Go on a picnic in the spring and summer. A romantic picnic in a meadow or on a beach is a great way to get outdoors and sp some time alone….Go ice skating in winter. Hold hands with your hubby and glide on the ice…Do something adventurous like an extreme sport. You could go rock climbing, snowboarding, surfing, etc. Sometimes nothing is better than a spontaneous text or voice message from your lover. Call just to say "I love you" or s your hubby a flirty message that contains something for him.. Get some new sexy outfits…Spice up a plain outfit with a sexy blouse or dress.If you're constantly wallowing around the house in sweatpants, it might be time to take a trip to the mall for some new clothes. There's nothing wrong with being comfor in front of your hubby, Have an attractive attitude. Being attractive isn't all about looking sexy, it's about exuding a compassionate attitude as well. Be sure to retain a kind disposition toward your husband and be considerate of his feelings.. Frame a picture of the two of you. A picture is truly worth a thousand words, and framing a picture of you and your husband is a great way to show him how much you care…
23-ஜன-2014 12:10:31 IST
@kumar ....The only way to stop is by STRONG WILL. Organize your day so you don’t have time to masturbate, organize social events so you won’t be left alone, remove all the things that could make you think about masturbation and when the urge comes, you need to put your mind to refraining from it. also avoiding watching obscene movies, pictures, .. divert concentration towards studies, work, spirituality and sports...If you can’t do it yourself, look for professional psychologist..
11-டிச-2013 11:00:50 IST
Lesbians are hard wired for their behavior, It is natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex... Understanding human behavior is an absorbing challenge, but seldom simple
03-டிச-2013 16:32:15 IST
The married lady has sex addict affair.. Being addicted to sex is not unlike other addictions, for example gambling. You feel 'empty' and use the addiction to feel temporarily full, but it never lasts, this can continue indefinitely unless the addict is prepared to undertake rigorous personal development . FOR YOU .. It is absolutely vital for you to move forward with life and love. Being willing to trust again is key. Take things one step at a time. time heals nothing. It is what you do with the time that matters. Remember that it is better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else.
02-அக்-2013 15:01:41 IST
Trust in God and ur destiny.. Choose somone who has the postive quilty of the ex NOt the negtive quilty, somone who will love you., Understand your mistakes. Figure out your weaknesses and mistakes in your first marriage, and make sure you don’t repeat them in your second marriage. Start fresh. Build your second marriage in a new house or neighborhood if you need to, move away from a small town or community. Don’t let the old ghosts of your divorce haunt your remarriage. Even if you’re comfor living in the remnants of your first marriage, your partner might not be. Leave the negativity behind. Focus on your successful remarriage without being dragged down by fears, failures, and thoughts of another divorce a second time. Your second marriage is more likely to last if you’re focused on the positive aspects of your partner and life together.
23-செப்-2013 12:14:29 IST
For many married couples, an active sex life is an integral factor in keeping the relationship strong. In fact, sexual compatibility is what may have drawn couples together to with. Unfortunately, not all couples enjoy regular sex, especially with the passing of time. It can be very frustrating, for example, for wives who have husbands that have lost interest in sex. While the problem can be relatively complex, wives can take definite steps to increase their husband's sex dive.
Make changes in physical appearance. The changes could include losing weight, or changing hair color and style. These changes could cause a husband to pay more attention to his wife's physical qualities, which could stimulate his sexual desires.
Wear more revealing clothing. This is especially important before going to bed. Visual stimulation is an important key in sexual arousal. Also, looking as attractive as possible at all times can attract positive attention.
a relaxing environment. A relaxing massage, for example, can help eliminate the symptoms of stress. Stress can be a contributing factor to a reduced interest in sex. Playing soothing music during the massage can be helpful in reducing stress as well.
Set up a time to discuss mutual feelings. This is especially important if the first three steps are unsuccessful. The meeting should be in a quiet place with limited distractions. An attempt should be made to allow both partners to speak freely.
Set a date to go away for a week together. a location where activities can be enjoyed together. Make an effort to look as good as possible, and have a romantic dinner together. Initiate as much physical contact as possible by holding hands and embracing.
Make an appointment, as a couple, to speak with a counselor. This is essential if the first five steps fail to bring satisfactory results. It is important to a counselor with extensive experience handling couples with intimacy problems...,
07-மே-2013 18:11:36 IST